Monday, September 18, 2017

A "Diet" May Not Be The Answer

The church computer had a mind of its own Sunday morning as it sent part of my post out prematurely. Some of you will have comments about that.  Here is what should have been sent.

I am the person that put out $5.00 for 15 plus issues of Time.  I actually thought I would become more up to date with world events, but not so.  However Time quite often has beneficial information about healthy eating and exercise. Yes, I am surprised and surprised to find it to be quality information not colored by opinion.  In The Truth About Weight Loss Alexandra Sifferlin writes about diets, metabolism, and exercise featuring quotes from others that have conquered their problem. Our country has an obesity rate of 40% and an even higher percentage for the overweight.  Ms Sifferlin brings to our attention that one diet does not work for all.  Everyone has to find their own way.

Picture this.  A group of 6-8 ladies are having lunch and as the dishes are cleared away one of them begins to talk about her successful weight loss and her "diet".  Body positions change and ears lean in.  She has lost a noticeable amount of weight.  I would guess that more than one of those ladies left the group thinking  " I might try her diet" and if so might be disappointed.  In my group sessions I quite often hear one sharing diet tips. Most often it's about the low-carb diet.  I cringe and change the subject. calls the weight loss industry a 60 billion dollar a year business.  That's a lot of money!  If weight loss is an issue for you, find your own way.  Just don't jump on the band wagon and order in what works for a friend.  The TV, the internet, magazines on any given day are fighting for your money.  Keep it.  There's a right way to do it and I don't see marketing for it yet.

Resource: Time June 5, 2017 The Truth About Weight Loss by Alexandra Sifferlin

Tuesday, September 12, 2017

National Weight Control Registry

The National Weight Control Registry is the longest ongoing record of successful weight loss.  Most people will agree that the hardest part of weight loss is keeping it off.  Maintenance.  Losing the weight is only the beginning.  Most will say when they hit that target goal, "I'm never going back there again."  Most do.  Hence we have the term yo-yo dieting.  The NWCR tracks over 10,000 people who have lost a significant amount of weight and kept it off.  You can even join the study yourself if you qualify and are 18 or over.  Members have lost an average of 66 pounds and kept if off for about 5 years.  There are a few things that they all have in common such as:

  • 78% eat breakfast every day
  • 75% weigh themselves at least once a week
  • 62% watch less than 10 hours of TV a week
  • 90% exercise an average of an hour a day

I particularly enjoyed reading the success stories.  I always love reading about a journey to success but I also find interesting the motivation to do so.  Often the motivation is the realization that good health is about to come crushing down.  Sometimes people just get sick of themselves. 
At any rate if you are struggling with weight check out the National Weight Control Registry.

As I sit in my comfortable chair writing this Florida has been hammered with a Cat 4 hurricane, Irma. Yesterday the tropical storm winds reached home for my family in South Georgia. Millions in the Southeast are without power.  Please keep all of those struggling from Irma in prayer.

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Reading By The Book

Whenever I hear others talk about books they are reading my ears perk up.  I have a waiting list on my kindle and yet I am always ready for that next great read.  I have recently undated my own reading list. If your ears perk up when you hear others talk about books they are reading, you can check it out on the sidebar of my blog .  For now I will highlight the three that impressed me the most.

1.  One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are by Ann Voskamp. (recommended by my brother)

If I were to give books for Christmas gifts, this would be the book. At a very young age Ann witnessed an unbelievable tragedy in her life.  One such that we only read about in the newspaper or hear on the news.  It shaped her life and from that point she was not childlike in her young life. Later in adulthood with a farmer husband she managed a house and a house full of kids. And at some point she discovered what gratitude for the everyday blessings could do for a life.  She writes
" The real problem of life is never lack of time.  
The real problem of life-in my life-is lack of thanksgiving."

2.  I Thought It Was Just Me by Brene Brown (my daughter's pick for our book study)

I wish I had read this when I was much younger but maybe I was too busy trying to do it all perfectly to really pay attention to the message.  Through years of research and countless interviews Brene Brown writes about our quest to be perfect and instead feeling inadequate. We are never going to get there on this earth but if we can learn to turn away from what we are supposed to be we might find that we are enough.  One quote that stands out for me is
"Courage gives us a voice and compassion gives us an ear."

3. The Book of Joy  Lasting Happiness In A Changing World by His Holiness the Dali Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu with Douglas Abrams (my daughter-in-law's pick)

I loved this book.  I reserved it for my night time reading and I always had a hard time putting it away.  It is humorous, educational, delightful and in the end it addresses the question, "How do we find happiness in life?"  If you are trying to find it, read this book.  The world needs to read that
"With a self-centered attitude, you become distanced from others, then distrust, then feel insecure, then fear, then anxiety, then frustration, then anger, then violence."

Tuesday, August 8, 2017


"Change starts in your thoughts."  

When our son was quite young, maybe 5 or 6, some of his favorite toys were transformers.  He could take a toy airplane and with a few quick turns transform it into a battleship or a monster.  His little fingers were so fast that his Dad and I could never figure out how he did it. "Transform" means to make a major change.  He did that with his toys.  I read recently about a real woman who had struggled for years with her weight problem.  After trying countless diets and fitness programs only to fail, she finally decided she had to change her mindset.  The British dictionary defines mindset as the ideas and attitudes a person approaches a situation when especially the situation is seen as being difficult to alter. Mindset involves attitude, behavior, the way we think and with effort mindset can be changed. The lady I read about took responsibility for herself and her transformation was remarkable. Fitness trackers were involved as was social media. She found online communities that became her inspiration. Facebook provides community for just about everything.  In the end she made a major change. She was the transformation!

Monday, July 31, 2017

Everyone Has A River To Cross

"The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."  Lao Tzu

I am a sucker for a good weight loss story but this one did not have the ending I expected. A man tipping the scales at 400 pounds woke up barely able to get out of bed.  As he passed a mirror he caught a glimpse of himself and knew he had to do something.  What a wake up call! What a single step!  After doing all of the wrong things like trying "diets" and spending hours in the gym he reached out to a friend/trainer who got him on the right path. Without question it was hard.  He knew that from the beginning but with perseverance and making some tough choices he lost over 170 pounds within a reasonable amount of time.  What brought tears to my eyes was not the tips shared for successful weight loss but what he said as he reached his goal. 
"Finally the biggest and maybe the most important lesson I am learning as my journey is progressing is that I can start to open my eyes to see and understand the challenges other people face, obesity related or not.  As I was losing the weight, I noticed that there was a lot of hurt in the world. By learning to identify and understand the challenges people face, perhaps I can be a source of inspiration and motivation."  It took me a lot of years to realize that everyone has a mountain to climb.  Everyone has a river to cross.  

ACSM Certified E-News For Certified Professionals.  One Mans Journey To Losing Weight and Gaining Control of His Life.

Tuesday, July 11, 2017


Gratitude is the surest pathway to health, happiness, and success.  It shifts our attitude towards what we have rather than what we don't have."

Habits. We all have them and I think we are quick to recognize the bad ones.  Leon Festinger in writing about habits refers to cognitive dissonance, the conflicting thoughts between behavior and attitudes.  We want one thing but we do the very thing that keeps up from getting there.  For example, if weight loss is an issue but you continue to drive through for pick up meals...well that is conflicting and nothing good happens.  

However, not all of our habits are bad.  Considering the fact that about 40% of daily activity is formed around habits, the majority probably cross the line to good.  Habits help us stay on target toward the things that are really important to us and achieve goals. They also say a lot about priorities.  I recently read  "25 Best Habits To Have In Life" and, yes, exercise was #5.
It is one of the very best habits to have.  It does an incredible amount of good.  Not always the sweat dripping I need help getting to my car kind of exercise, but moderate exercise that gets your heart pumping and makes it a little hard to talk.

There were other habits on the list that do an incredible amount of good as well.  The habit of "Gratitude" is second on the list.  Gratitude helps change our focus from our problems and what we don't have to what we do have; from what's wrong with our lives to what's right with our lives.  In fact, Anne Voskamp wrote a wonderful book, "1000 Gifts" teaching that "it's only in this life expression of gratitude that we discover the life we have always wanted".  Gratitude.  It's one of the best.

Anne Voskamp  "One Thousand Gifts" 

Thursday, June 29, 2017

Tips For Better Posture

David and I have coffee at Starbucks quite often.  Wednesday was a slow day for them; only 6 customers and us.  As I looked around I noticed three young women between the ages of 18 and 20 all with cell phones in hand, an older gentleman sitting at our table reading and a woman at the end tablet in hand.  Everyone had one thing in common outside of coffee.  Everybody was slouching. The young women were slouching with forward head. I resisted the urge to fix them.  I have done this in the past and it did not prove to be advantageous.  I am conscious of my own habits and those of my clients and while I do try to fix myself and them, that's as far as I go. Slouching or poor posture has many negative affects in the long run.  Years of slouching can lead to digestive and breathing issues. Just get a mental picture of the body all rounded forward and the lungs trying to work properly.  The lower back is in for a lot of discomfort as are the neck and shoulders.  Additionally, I recently read that slouching can also affect how we feel about ourselves.  Good posture doesn't take the place of antidepressants or counseling, if needed, but it can be uplifting.  Think about it like this.  Looking down so much can't be the picture of your happy place.  So stand up straight, pull your shoulders down and back, sit up as straight as possible, put your thumbs on the bottom of your rib cage and lift your rib cage.  Pick one of those tips as a reminder for better posture and look out or up but not down.